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40. The Queens Fool

Rating: ☆☆☆☆

Recommended by: 

Author: Phillipa Gregory

Genre: Historical  Fiction

Info: 490 pages, published February 4, 2004

Format:  Book


Summary 

The Queen’s Fool starts in 1553 and follows the story of Hannah Green, a fourteen-year-old Jewish girl who is forced to flee the Spanish Inquisition to London with her father.  With her gift of “Sight,” the ability to foresee the future, Hannah is befriended by the charismatic Robert Dudley, son of King Edward’s protector.

Dudley brings Hannah to court as a “holy fool,” first for Queen Mary (daughter of Henry VIII and his first wife Catherine of Aragon), and then for Mary’s half sister Queen Elizabeth.  Hannah is recruited as a spy and endangered by the political upheaval rocking England as Mary, Elizabeth and others vie for power in a country divided between Protestants and Catholics.

 

Quotes

“Because all books are forbidden when a country turns to terror. The scaffolds on the corners, the list of things you may not read. These things always go together.”

“Ideas are more dangerous than an unsheathed sword in this world, half of them are forbidden, the other half would lead a man to question the very place of the earth itself, safe at the center of the universe.”

“One should never offend more men than one can persuade,”

“Daniel, I did not know what I wanted when I was a girl. And then I was a fool in every sense of the word. And now that I am a woman grown, I know that I love you and I want this son of yours, and our children who will come. I have seen a woman break her heart for love: my Queen Mary. I have seen another break her soul to avoid it: my Princess Elizabeth. I don’t want to be Mary or Elizabeth, I want to be me: Hannah Verde Carpenter.”

“might be that marriage was not the death of a woman and the end of her true self, but the unfolding of her.  It might be that a woman could be a wife without having to cut the pride and the spirit out of herself. A woman might blossom into being a wife, not be trimmed down to fit.”

“And we shall live somewhere that we can follow our beliefs without danger,” he insisted.  “Yes,” I said, “in the England that Elizabeth will make.”

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39. Life from Scratch: A Memoir of Food, Family, and Forgiveness

Rating:  ☆☆☆1/2

Recommended by: Chris Guillebeau

Author: Sasha Martin

Genre:  Non Fiction, Memoir, Food

Info: 352 pages, published March 3, 2015

Format:  Book


Summary 

Life from Scratch is really two stories in one book. The first part of the book is a traditional memoir where Sasha Martin recounts her unconventional and difficult childhood with a free spirit, eccentric mother who had difficulty caring for Sasha and her siblings.  In the second part of the book, over the course of 195 weeks, Martin takes on the challenge of cooking and eating a meal from every country in the world.  She achieves her goal and makes peace with her mother, partially due to a shared love of creative cooking.

 

Quotes

“There are mysteries buried in the recesses of every kitchen — every crumb kicked under the floorboard is a hidden memory.  But some kitchens are made of more.  Some kitchens are everything.”

“Marcel Proust, the 20th Century novelist, knew how easy it is to bring the past to life:  When he bit into a tea-soaked madeleine, the shadows of his childhood took on color, snapping into full dimension.  If I put the right ingredients in my spice jars, I realized, they’d be portals to a bygone era.”

“And perhaps that’s been Mom’s secret all along:  her brutal common sense that slices through any and all notions of what “should” be.  From our living room kitchen back in Jamaica Plain to this global table, it’s been about getting our fill.  Not just of food, but of the intangible things we all need:  acceptance, love and understanding.”

“My first encounter with a baguette, torn still warm from its paper sheathing, shattered and sighed on contact. The sound stopped me in my tracks, the way a crackling branch gives deer pause; that’s what good crust does. Once I began to chew, the flavor unfolded, deep with yeast and salt, the warm humidity of the tender crumb almost breathing against my lips.”

“Happiness is not a destination: Being happy takes constant weeding, a tending of emotions and circumstances as they arise. There’s no happily ever after, or any one person or place that can bring happiness. It takes work to be calm in the midst of turmoil. But releasing the need to control it—well, that’s a start.”

“Once, I thought happiness was the sizzle in the pan. But it’s not. Happiness is the spice—that fragile speck, beholden to the heat, always and forever tempered by our environment.”

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38. Glitter and Glue

Rating:  ☆☆☆1/2

Recommended by: 

Author:  Kelly Corrigan

Genre:  Non Fiction, Memoir

Info:  240 pages, published February 4, 2014

Format:  Book


Summary 

When Kelly Corrigan was a teenager, her mother summarized the family dynamic as “Your father’s the glitter, but I’m the glue.”  This concept was meaningless to Kelly at the time, but took on significance as Kelly grew older and encountered the slings and arrows of life.  Glitter and Glue recounts Corrigan’s post-college adventure working as an au pair in Australia for the Tanner family who had just lost their wife and mother. While navigating the family dynamics, Kelly started hearing her mother’s voice everywhere.  During the time she spent with the Tanner kids she started reconsidering her relationship with her mother.

 

Quotes

“When I was growing up, my mom was guided by the strong belief that to befriend me was to deny me the one thing a kid really needed to survive childhood:  a mother.”

“I want her to know that I’ll take care of her, even when it’s not pretty or easy or cheap.  Of course I will.  The mother is the most essential piece on the board, the one you must protect.  Only she has the range.  Only she can move in multiple directions.  Once she’s gone, it’s a whole different game.”  

“I had thought a good mother would not elicit such comments, but now I see that a good mother is required to somehow absorb all this ugliness and find a way to fall back in love with her child the next day.”

“The only mothers who never embarrass, harass, dismiss, discount, deceive, distort, neglect, baffle, appall, inhibit, incite, insult, or age poorly are dead mothers, perfectly contained in photographs, pressed into two dimensions like a golden autumn leaf.”

“But now I see there’s no such thing as “a” woman, “one” woman. There are dozens inside every one of them. I probably should have figured this out sooner, but what child can see the women inside her mom, what with all the Motherness blocking out everything else?”

“It’s easy to love kids who make you feel competent.”

“And it occurs to me that maybe the reason my mother was so exhausted all the time wasn’t because she was doing so much but because she was feeling so much.”

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37. An Officer and a Spy

Rating:  ☆☆☆

Recommended by:  Lisa Goldberg

Author: Robert Harris

Genre: Historical Fiction, Spy/Espionage

Info: 429 pages, published January 28, 2014

Format:  Audio Book


Summary 

An Officer and a Spy is the story of the Dreyfus Affair.  In 1895 Paris, Alfred Dreyfus, a young Jewish officer was convicted of treason and sentenced to life imprisonment at Devil’s Island.  Among the witnesses to Dreyfus’ humiliation is Georges Picquart, who had recently been promoted to the head of the counterespionage agency that “proved” Dreyfus had passed secrets to the Germans.  While Picquart initially believes that Dreyfus is guilty, he comes across information that leads him to suspect that there is still a spy at large in the French military.  As evidence mounts that implicates the uppermost levels of government, Picquart begins to question not only the case against Dreyfus but also his most deeply held beliefs about his country and himself.

Quotes

“There is something to be said for senility . With her mind gone, she does not lack for company.”

“My four golden principles are more important now than ever: take it one step at a time; approach the matter dispassionately; avoid a rush to judgment; confide in nobody until there is hard evidence.”

“There is no such thing as a secret—not really, not in the modern world, not with photography and telegraphy and railways and newspaper presses.”

“The old days of an inner circle of like-minded souls communicating with parchment and quill pens are gone. Sooner or later most things will be revealed.”

“I feel as if I have walked into a mirrored room and glimpsed myself from an unfamiliar angle for the first time. Is that really what I look like? Is that who I am?”

“There are occasions when losing is a victory, so long as there is a fight.”

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36. Going Solo

Rating:  ☆☆☆

Recommended by:   

Author:  Roald Dahl

Genre:  Non-Fiction, Memoir, Humor

Info:  209 pages, published 1986

Format:  Book


Summary 

Going Solo is the autobiographical sequel of Boy, which is written by the world-famous author Roald Dahl (author of many famous children’s books including personal favorites Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, James and the Giant Peach and Fantastic Mr. Fox).  It is about his life as a worker with the Shell Company in Africa and an RAF fighter pilot during World War II.  Dahl hilariously recounts stories from his adventurous life as a young man, out on his own and ready to conquer the world.

Quotes

“A life is made up of a great number of small incidents and a small number of great ones.”

“What a fortunate fellow I am, I kept telling myself. Nobody has ever had such a lovely time as this!”

“I was already beginning to realize that the only way to conduct oneself in a situation where bombs rained down and bullets whizzed past, was to accept the dangers and all the consequences as calmly as possible.  Fretting and sweating about it all was not going to help.”

“Mary Welland was certainly lovely. She was gentle and kind. She remained my friend all the time I was in hospital. But there is a world of difference falling in love with a voice and remaining in love with a person you can see. From the moment I opened my eyes, Mary became a human instead of a dream and my passion evaporated.”

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35. The Year of Magical Thinking

Rating:  ☆☆☆1/2

Recommended by:  N/A

Author:  Joan Didion

Genre:  Non-Fiction, Memoir

Info:  227 pages, published February 13, 2007

Format:  Book

Summary 

In The Year of Magical Thinking, Joan Didion, one of the country’s most famous writers, explores the grief she suffered as the result of the death of her husband John Dunne and the life threatening illness of their only child, Quintana.  Didion creates a portrait of loss by her portrayal of married and family life.

Quotes

 “We were not having any fun, he had recently begun pointing out. I would take exception (didn’t we do this, didn’t we do that) but I had also known what he meant. He meant doing things not because we were expected to do them or had always done them or should do them but because we wanted to do them. He meant wanting. He meant living.”

“I could not count the times during the average day when something would come up that I needed to tell him. This impulse did not end with his death. What ended was the possibility of response.”

“I did not always think he was right nor did he always think I was right but we were each the person the other trusted.”

“I know why we try to keep the dead alive: we try to keep them alive in order to keep them with us. I also know that if we are to live ourselves there comes a point at which we must relinquish the dead, let them go, keep them dead. ”

“Grief turns out to be a place none of us know until we reach it. We anticipate (we know) that someone close to us could die, but we do not look beyond the few days or weeks that immediately follow such an imagined death. We misconstrue the nature of even those few days or weeks. We might expect if the death is sudden to feel shock. We do not expect this shock to be obliterative, dislocating to both body and mind. We might expect that we will be prostrate, inconsolable, crazy with loss. We do not expect to be literally crazy, cool customers who believe their husband is about to return and need his shoes.”

“In the version of grief we imagine, the model will be “healing.” A certain forward movement will prevail. The worst days will be the earliest days. We imagine that the moment to most severely test us will be the funeral, after which this hypothetical healing will take place. When we anticipate the funeral we wonder about failing to “get through it,” rise to the occasion, exhibit the “strength” that invariably gets mentioned as the correct response to death. We anticipate needing to steel ourselves the for the moment: will I be able to greet people, will I be able to leave the scene, will I be able even to get dressed that day? We have no way of knowing that this will not be the issue. We have no way of knowing that the funeral itself will be anodyne, a kind of narcotic regression in which we are wrapped in the care of others and the gravity and meaning of the occasion. Nor can we know ahead of the fact (and here lies the heart of the difference between grief was we imagine it and grief as it is) the unending absence that follows, the void, the very opposite of meaning, the relentless succession of moments during which we will confront the experience of meaninglessness itself.”

“People who have recently lost someone have a certain look, recognizable maybe only to those who have seen that look on their own faces. I have noticed it on my face and I notice it now on others. The look is one of extreme vulnerability, nakedness, openness. It is the look of someone who walks from the ophthalmologist’s office into the bright daylight with dilated eyes, or of someone who wears glasses and is suddenly made to take them off. These people who have lost someone look naked because they think themselves invisible. I myself felt invisible for a period of time, incorporeal. I seemed to have crossed one of those legendary rivers that divide the living from the dead, entered a place in which I could be seen only by those who were themselves recently bereaved.”

“We are imperfect mortal beings, aware of that mortality even as we push it away, failed by our very complication, so wired that when we mourn our losses we also mourn, for better or for worse, ourselves.  As we were.  As we are no longer.  As we will one day not be at all.”

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34. Rise of the Robots : Technology and the Threat of a Jobless Future

Rating: ☆☆☆☆

Recommended by:  Chris Funk (my Dad)

Author:  Martin Ford

Genre:  Non-Fiction, Science, Futuristic

Info:  352 pages, published May 5, 2015

Format:  Book

Summary 

In Rise of the Robots, Martin Ford discusses what machine intelligence and robotics can accomplish, and warns employers and policy makers to face the implications.  As technology continues to accelerate and machines begin taking care of themselves, fewer people will be necessary.  The past solutions to technological disruption, especially more training and education, aren’t going to work, and we must decide soon whether the future will see broad-based prosperity or catastrophic levels of inequality and economic insecurity.  This book helps you understand what accelerating technology means for your economic prospects and those of your children, as well as for society as a whole.

 

Quotes

“Imagine that you get in your car and begin driving at 5 miles per hour. You drive for a minute, accelerate to double your speed to 10 mph, drive for another minute, double your speed again, and so on. The really remarkable thing is not simply the fact of the doubling but the amount of ground you cover after the process has gone on for a while. In the first minute, you would travel about 440 feet. In the third minute at 20 mph, you’d cover 1,760 feet. In the fifth minute, speeding along at 80 mph, you would go well over a mile. To complete the sixth minute, you’d need a faster car—as well as a racetrack. Now think about how fast you would be traveling—and how much progress you would make in that final minute—if you doubled your speed twenty-seven times. That’s roughly the number of times computing power has doubled since the invention of the integrated circuit in 1958. The revolution now under way is happening not just because of the acceleration itself but because that acceleration has been going on for so long that the amount of progress we can now expect in any given year is potentially mind-boggling. The answer to the question about your speed in the car, by the way, is 671 million miles per hour. In that final, twenty-eighth minute, you would travel more than 11 million miles. Five minutes or so at that speed would get you to Mars. That, in a nutshell, is where information technology stands today, relative to when the first primitive integrated circuits started plodding along in the late 1950s.”

“In 2012, Google, for example, generated a profit of nearly $14 billion while employing fewer than 38,000 people.  Contrast that with the automotive industry. At peak employment in 1979, General Motors alone had nearly 840,000 workers but earned only about $11 billion—20 percent less than what Google raked in. And, yes, that’s after adjusting for inflation.”

“Indeed, a 2013 study by Carl Benedikt Frey and Michael A. Osborne at the University of Oxford concluded that occupations amounting to nearly half of US total employment may be vulnerable to automation within roughly the next two decades.”

“Perhaps the most remarkable elder-care innovation developed in Japan so far is the Hybrid Assistive Limb (HAL)—a powered exoskeleton suit straight out of science fiction. Developed by Professor Yoshiyuki Sankai of the University of Tsukuba, the HAL suit is the result of twenty years of research and development. Sensors in the suit are able to detect and interpret signals from the brain. When the person wearing the battery-powered suit thinks about standing up or walking, powerful motors instantly spring into action, providing mechanical assistance. A version is also available for the upper body and could assist caretakers in lifting the elderly. Wheelchair-bound seniors have been able to stand up and walk with the help of HAL. Sankai’s company, Cyberdyne, has also designed a more robust version of the exoskeleton for use by workers cleaning up the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear plant in the wake of the 2011 disaster. The company says the suit will almost completely offset the burden of over 130 pounds of tungsten radiation shielding worn by workers.  HAL is the first elder-care robotic device to be certified by Japan’s Ministry of Economy, Trade, and Industry. The suits lease for just under $2,000 per year and are already in use at over three hundred Japanese hospitals and nursing homes.”

“Imagine the uproar when Uber’s cars start arriving without drivers.”

“In Japan, a new machine is able to select ripe strawberries based on subtle color variations and then pick a strawberry every eight seconds—working continuously and doing most of the work at night.”

“In a recent analysis, Martin Grötschel of the Zuse Institute in Berlin found that, using the computers and software that existed in 1982, it would have taken a full eighty-two years to solve a particularly complex production planning problem. As of 2003, the same problem could be solved in about a minute—an improvement by a factor of around 43 million. Computer hardware became about 1,000 times faster over the same period, which means that improvements in the algorithms used accounted for approximately a 43,000-fold increase in performance.”

“acquiring more education and skills will not necessarily offer effective protection against job automation”

“We eventually will have to move away from the idea that workers support retirees and pay for social programs, and instead adopt the premise that our overall economy supports these things. Economic growth, after all, has significantly outpaced the rate at which new jobs have been created and wages have been rising.”

“potentially unlimited output can be achieved by systems of machines which will require little cooperation from human beings.” The result would be massive unemployment, soaring inequality, and, ultimately, falling demand for goods and services as consumers increasingly lacked the purchasing power necessary to continue driving economic growth.”

“Knowing the ideological predisposition of a particular economist is often a better predictor of what that individual is likely to say than anything contained in the data under examination.”

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33. Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk

Rating:  ☆☆

Recommended by:  Melissa Byers

Author:  David Sedaris

Genre:  Fiction, Short Stories, Humor

Info:  159 pages, published September 28, 2010

Format:  Book

 

Summary 

Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk is a collection of short stories from master storyteller David Sedaris focused on animal-themed tales.  While the characters are not human, the situations in these stories bear a strong resemblance to the madness of everyday life.  In “The Toad, the Turtle, and the Duck,” three strangers commiserate about animal bureaucracy while waiting in a complaint line.  In “Hello Kitty,” a cynical feline struggles to sit through his prison-mandated AA meetings.  In “The Squirrel and the Chipmunk,” a pair of star-crossed lovers is separated by prejudiced family members.

 

Quotes

“The squirrel and the chipmunk had been dating for two weeks when they ran out of things to talk about. Acorns, parasites, the inevitable approach of autumn: these subjects had been covered within their first hour, and so breathlessly their faces had flushed.  Twice they had held long conversations about dogs, each declaring an across-the-board hatred of them and speculating on what life might be like were someone to put a bowl of food in front of them two times a day. ‘They’re spoiled rotten is what it comes down to,’ the chipmunk had said, and the squirrel placed his paw over hers, saying, ‘that’s it exactly.  Finally, someone who really gets it.’”

“Plenty of animals had pets, but few were more devoted than the mouse, who owned a baby corn snake—“A rescue snake, she’d be quick to inform you. This made it sound like he’d been snatched from the jaws of a raccoon, but what she’d really rescued him from was a life without her love. And what sort of a life would that have been?”

“Nothing irritated her more than these high-and-mighty vegetarians who ate meat sometimes and then decided that it didn’t really count.”

“But songbirds are trash,” the chicken said, and the guinea hen laughed, saying, “Well, then, I guess we could all use a little more trash in our lives.”

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32. One Plus One

Rating:  ☆☆☆☆

Recommended by:  

Author:  Jojo Moyes 

Genre:  Fiction, Romance

Info:  368 pages, published February 27, 2014

Format:  Audio Book

 

Summary 

One Plus One tells the story of everywoman Jess Thomas, a single-mom raising two kids, tortured goth teen Nicky who is being bullied at school, and his half-sister Tanzie, a math prodigy.  Jess is working as a house cleaner when she meets Ed Nicholls, a technology millionaire, while cleaning his house in an English holiday town.

Their stories intertwine as they and their non-stop farting family dog all pile into Ed’s new Audi for a road trip to get Tanzie to a Maths competition in Aberdeen, Scotland.  While each of them have a compelling tale, they all join together into an heart rending, well told story about family, trust, and love.

 

Quotes

“Because she knew that something happened to you when your mother didn’t hold you close, or tell you all the time that you were the best thing ever, or even notice when you were home: a little part of you sealed over. You didn’t need her. You didn’t need anyone. And without even knowing you were doing it, you waited. You waited for anyone who got close to you to see something they didn’t like in you, something they hadn’t initially seen, and to grow cold and disappear, too, like so much sea mist. Because there had to be something wrong, didn’t there, if even your own mother didn’t really love you?”

“Um, Jess?”  “Not now, Nicky.”  The police car was pulling over, too. Tanzie’s palms had begun to sweat. “It will all be fine.” “I guess this isn’t the time to tell you I brought my stash with me.”

“Jess’s grandmother had often said that the key to a happy life was a short memory.”

“This is the story of a family who didn’t fit in. A little girl who was a bit geeky and liked maths more than makeup. And a boy who liked makeup and didn’t fit into any tribes.”

“The only thing Jess really cared about were those two children and letting them know they were okay. Because even if the whole world was throwing rocks at you, if you had your mother at your back, you’d be okay. Some deep-rooted part of you would know you were loved. That you deserved to be loved.”

“You know, you spend your whole life feeling like you don’t quite fit in anywhere. And then you walk into a room one day, whether it’s at university or an office or some kind of club, and you just go, ‘Ah. There they are.’ And suddenly you feel at home.”

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